Ordinary kids, extraordinary courage..

Lets say its too late to be shared now.. But i remember what my father always told me was .. Life is about learn and share.. There's not thingy called late unless you have the ideas how to share wisely to others.. Do much learn and share it! 

The inspiring story comes from the strongest children survivor..

child..

survive..

Live..

Dream..

A chilhood cancer survivor..

Beyond the recent and statistics about childhood cancer are the remarkable stories of young patients whose courageous spirit inspires us every day. I have met some of these extraordinary kids and learn about their struggles and spirit.

In one of the ocasion.. I met the children cancers survivor on YKAKI - an Indonesian Care for Cancer Kids Foundation. 

We talks, we sing, we play, we laugh and i learn a lot.

I believe that on the weekest point of their condition.. They keep struggel and gaining spirit day to day.. minutes to minutes..

Eventhou they realized what are being happen with theirs health, but they keep strong to face it.. how can i said more? amazed .. Inspiring 

I believe cancer problems can reduce if government aware and give attention in cancer area. especiality in medicine and education. There needs to be a recognition that childhood cancer is a global problems. Then, teens can get a good life in future dream and  inspired to others..

Dear indah and ivan..keep standing tall and step forward to achieve your dreams.. God be with you and holding your hand tightly towards your step living..

Withlove,

Kakak2:)

you may further look the ykaki gallery in here :')

 http://www.ykaki.org/id/galler

Choose Character over Chemistry ?

Haloha!

Choose Character over Chemistry:   While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote follows, “Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.” The idea of falling “in love” should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love. The most important character traits to look for include humility, kindness, responsibility, & happiness. Here’s a breakdown of each trait:

• Humility: The humble person never makes demands of people but rather always does right by them. They put their values and principles above convenience and comfort. They are slow to anger, are modest, and avoid materialism. 
• Kindness: The kind person is the quintessential giver. They seek to please and minimize the pain of others. To know if a person is a giver, observe how they treat their family, siblings, and parents. Do they have gratitude towards their parents for all that they’ve done for them? If not, then know that they will never appreciate what you do for them. How do they treat people they don’t have to be kind towards (i.e. waiters, sales associates, employees, etc)? How do they spend their money? How do they deal with anger; their own anger and their reaction to someone else’s anger? 
• Responsibility: A responsible person has stability in their finances, relationships, job, and character. You can you rely on this person and trust what they say.
• Happiness: A happy person is content with their portion in life. They feel good about themselves and good about their life. They focus on what they have rather than on what they don’t have. They very rarely complain.

So, are you steady ready with your choice and ready closer  to get  married? :p 

source : http://muslimvillage.com 

time moves fast! welc 2012 :)

Goodbye 2011...

Thanks for all the precious memories to keep, people i met, the way i changed, and mount of experiences I learned. 

it's gonna be hard to leave 2011.. happiness, sadness, motivated, joyful, laugh, memories, bad and good things i've been known well there.

Last.. 2011 likely to be gone but not forgotten. 

thanks for being a great teacher year ever!

and hei 2012.. we are starting :)

on this year.. i'm turning 24, having graduating ceremony,  fight to reach my goal and all those plans have been added into my dream resolution list.

it shall be a great year..

Bismillah :')

i watch the fireworks glow high ♥

- septy.

 

See you , Ramadhan :)

Lately to talks about this holy-month now, Ramadhan has just left us..

I don't even know who read my notes actually, but I'm so sorry if I seem 'religi' this one.

As a moslem, I do love Ramadhan for the reason we do understand. We feel safe when he's ( Ramadhan ) around. Knowing that, no matter what, Ramadhan is always I'm missing to come..

Ramadhan kemarin, 90 percent gue jalanin dikosan.. without ibu, bapak, kakak (sister nor brother) accompanied our eat-time together on saur maupun breakfasting magrib. I live in a completely different place. I can't behave the same way like I used to do at home, no healthy food deserve, no hot-tea by Mom's made. I am obliged to do something by my self.

In short, I'm homeless.

Anyhow, I dislike getting lost from my mom (efek bontot mungkin yah..). Thus,, I learn a lot from that :).

belajar menghargai seberapa mampunya menghidupkan diri sendiri dengan kemampuan sendiri. Sound absurd yah? but it's real feeling I really feel.. hamdallah..

One of the biggest sins i admitted here, previous Ramadhan contains of my un-perfect ibadah. minimnya tarawih -atau sesunahan lainnya yg rarely gue lakuin selain rutinitas schedule kerja -dan acara buka bersama yg mostly gue lakuin. forgive me God :(.

And now, Ramadhan just left us.. Smoga setelah Ramadhan kita semua menjadi pribadi yang lebih baik -dalam iman- dan segala hal. And can return to meet another Ramadhan next year, Insha Allah.

dan teruntuk terima-kasih untuk pihak-pihak yang menemani saya melalui Ramdhan tahun ini. Dalam sahur, berbuka, dan sisa waktu lebihnya for accompanied me along this Ramadhan. Allah blessed you, Anonymous :) ♥.

we are welcoming of iedul Fitri.. mohon maaf lahir bathin for any fault I made -or any unexpected Post i published here.. 

cheers! - Septy

1/2 Logic !

What should you mean this? have ever felt this? take a minutes to read, or just ignore it :). danke! 

Welcome to the full traveling package around my mind! - When I woke up, the first prior on mindset is checking about you. Maybe only a lil say 'hello' from you could boost my mood whole the day on ..

am the one, who's laughter loud when you told a flat-joke. Am the one, who's follow the rules of music you are addict listen to.. Am the one, who's recognize every inch of your moving -or maybe a lil bit of ur habit , that you even not recognized..  

When I were on the mount of tasks, or some problems attack me.. you were there to help me -or made a simply acts thus really helps me a lot!. anytime, I can count on you.. and I do either, without no doubt!   

I browse around for any/every-thing of your past-record. Or kinda doing some goofy things by stalking page containing of yours. for somehow, feel a bit jealous to somebody I don't even know yet who's looking a care from you, so weird! :'). Then, I began to known well about ur life living, family, pals, co-work and around.. all I known those by listen to your daily-storied you often tolds me many times you want.. I were there , anytime.

hey there.. Noted it well, I don't really care with your out-look.. or ur appearance looks like. And the time will slowly run, when you spent a day to accompanied me along the day. Just on beside you, a world could mean to me..  even twenty-four hours couldn't has enough words to describe. Now, its need a couple hour to prepared anything just to met you . Or mine hundred of assuming what you will thinking about me...  

It's like, there's something missing when my ears couldn't reach ur voice before sleep.. There will be a worried when you were absences contact me in a day.. And There're a redundant worried, while to know you have not eat ur breakfast yet.. - or a simply thing, while there's no jacket or shirt not completely enough warming you out there.. eventually the moment while i couldn't reach you by distance..

and.. 

is it too selfish when i want you to be only me? .Thus.. why am afraid to lost you (again), I sure..   

if you are thinking of someone while reading this,

you are absolutely in love :) 

feel free to ignore my post, its just a fairy tail story that probably can happen for everyone-else.. And there was, actually, a particular reason either why I'm writing this as my post, cause mine inspired by others storied too ;)

 so?? no offense :) .  - septy      

Cinema (not always) mirror on society

Holla! 

on this spot of my post, i'm going shared about..my critically view thru the genre cinema i don't really loved most.. but I adored with the message indeed.. agak bingung jadinya spesifikasiinnya.. :D

Actually,  i dont really like this genre -> ( a-love-life-dramatically-cinema).. they often told audience a fragile story indeed, rite? 

First,

lets forget reality cinema being a mirror on society, it was never true and certainly never will be.You can tell a lot about a person by the way they behave in a cinema. Most people are just happy to be there, sitting with friends watching the imaginary world go by.

But on my point of view?

i'd love to contributed my emotion and imagination onto what the story's tolds. That's why, satu alasan mereka (teman-teman) bilang am an imaginative person :p

Second,

Surprisingly ! here i would talk about the two title of dramatically cinema.

-- No String Attached.

Ashton Kutcher, an actor i've been adore since along.. and Natalie Portman, a queen lady whose always succeed roles on her acts.

This story mostly tolds about their friendship-love-combine. In order to protect their friendship, they make a pact to keep their relationship strictly as "no strings attached."

   

"No strings" means no jealousy, no expectations, no fighting, no flowers, and last "no baby voices" (bold marked :p). It means they can do whatever they want, whenever they want, in whatever public place they want, as long as they don't fall in love. 

See.. The questions become appear - "Can you have making love without love getting in the way? And can their friendship survive?" this is it! . This cinema packed many of learning i've earned. They can manage their deep feeling blur on relationship, they keep struggle avoid anything that can broke their rules. But, slowly.. and unpredictly.. their strong feeling appear and broke up the dramatically rules been happen :D. This I called as a spontaneous heart feeling.. yang mostly happen di real life .

ahh so damn much love their acts here.. so naturally! and the story? great!. How can love be illuminate the friendship roles they been made before? hahaha no offense :D

-- P.S I Love You

Couples wife-husband , Gerry and Holly..

Holly is a young Irish woman has just lost her husband. She struggles with what to do with her life now that the love of her life is gone. Gerry dies suddenly of a brain tumor and Holly realizes how much he means to her as well as how insignificant their arguments were. She struggles to get up each morning. She doesn't leave the house anymore or talk to her family and friends. One day she has a package and needs to pick up. Holly gets it and realizes that it contains letters from her husband that he wrote before he died.

There are 10 letters each containing some instruction on what to do nowthat he is gone. She is only allowed to read one letter a month and each one comes with instructions about what to do now that he is gone. All the while she realizes that even though he is gone he is still with her in spirit and she must go on with her life. 

One of my Fav Gerry's letter :

"Dear Holly, I don't have much time. I don't mean literally, I mean you're out buying ice cream and you'll be home soon. But I have a feeling this is the last letter, because there is only one thing left to tell you. It isn't to go down memory lane or make you buy a lamp, you can take care of yourself without any help from me. It's to tell you how much you move me, how you changed me. You made me a man, by loving me Holly. And for that, I am eternally grateful... literally. If you can promise me anything, promise me that whenever you're sad, or unsure, or you lose complete faith, that you'll try to see yourself through my eyes. Thank you for the honor of being my wife. I'm a man with no regrets. How lucky am I. You made my life, Holly. But I'm just one chapter in yours. There'll be more. I promise. So here it comes, the big one. Don't be afraid to fall in love again. Watch out for that signal, when life as you know it ends. P.S. I will always love you  "

 

LOVABLE! dalem sungguh inti cerita di film ini saudara-saudara! hehe. Dalam keadaan sekarat sekalipun, He able to write all the letters and think about his wife. Romantic-ly!

At least, feel free to Like or Dislike my post..

intinya.. dari dua film drama di atas, i got a conclusion that : They are happy to survive the day what the way life is. They also tumble wisely through life telling stories,and standing tough enough to face the life-living leason :')

Cheers!

-septyy

corner world

Hello World!

Let's say that word has been my new dream.
Even though I'm already trying to settle in, finding which mind to dream on, and managing my dream into there. So I can get the best out of my new life in many place of world. How wonderful is that! ;)


Anyway, just feel free to continue read or leave my blog.


Yes, life is unpredict! I already warned myself of that. I really really would have the chance to explore Europe and Asia! Paraguay, Paris, Netherland, Japan at least. But I didn't know when it would be going happen?. So all of sudden, those big dreams has become my big obsession.
But I guess it's true, And believe me, it's not just a dream at all for someday ( wishes ). But again, it's not a good feeling when you realize that so faraway to reach. I should not give up. Because I'm still on the process of getting integrating my self n my career next!

Let's say, every beginning is not always that simple, eh?
I wish someday, I could reach up my goals. Visiting many wonderful corner of world. Spending those time with the one I loved ( love mate), with them I respecting (parents) , and others I cares ( friends n siblings).


Someday :)

Regards,

Septy -

Pretty Ugly

Hai septy,

Ga kerasa..
you are much older than me now..
Logikanya, cara kamu berpikir dan bersikap juga (harusnya) lebih dewasa yah skrg

Ohya.. Perkenalkan aku adalah kamu
Kamu di beberapa tahun lalu..
Remind it clear, dear?
Gakerasa sudah hampir 8 thn
Kamu lepas dari atribut putih biru

kamu sudah banyak berubah ya sekarang.
bisa dikatakan jauh beda dari aku
Gaya hidup, pergaulan, prinsip hidup dan kisah-kasih
Banyak sekali yang kamu rubah


dalam pergaulan terutama.
Dulu, Aku seorang yang membenci keramaian dan kemewahan
bukannya kamu juga harusnya begitu ya?
Bisa mulai Coba menjadi sesederhana aku dulu?
Modest outside, glamour inside, deal?


Hey, kamupun berubah dalam urusan study.
Dulu aku mengutamakan pendidikan di list prioritas
Belajar, ujian, bimbingan dan prestasi.
Hm.. kamu yang sekarang (lebih) pemalas
sistem kebut semalam atau maksimal seminggu sebelum ujian
Santai , itu yang sekarang kamu gagas


kamu sudah masuk semester akhir loh.
just one term left before you being bachelor degree of economy
nilai bagus di sks dan ipk aja ga cukup,
you are on the way to achieve ur dreams,
just keep doing good, better then best..
ayo totalitas skripsi, grab "toga" fastest !


Tetap sayang keluarga yah..
Makin sayang sama ibu.
Makin hormat sama bapak
Mereka itu luar biasa loh
jangan lupa selalu doakan kakak² kamu
agar selalu dilancarkan pekerjaan dan urusannya.
inget ya, family gets priority.


Hey anak bontot ibu,
skrg saatnya kamu memberi yg terbaik utk mereka!
Ingat, dari dulu sampai hari ini..
Terlalu byk permintaan terpenuhi yg selalu kamu terima


mungkin kamu sudah mulai dewasa sekarang,
Sudah dua puluh dua tahun
mulai bisa memahami dan menelaah problems dari sudut yang berbeda.
Mulai bisa memahami berbagi cinta dgn pria terbaik
Satu saja pilih, yg mampu jadi imam keluarga kecilmu nanti
Do wisely to chose those right one :)


Therefore,


belum telat kok utk berubah,
kamu masih punya waktu,
pertahankan prinsip dasar yang baik,
yang rajin ibadah yah,
kamu harus bisa banggain mereka di sekeliling kamu.
Treat them nice, and pray for them anytime


Don't do worried by any public's assume of you,
Just doing best on your way,
Being much contribute to others,
Spent your wise love for them :)


Last,
makasih yah kamu inget aku
Udah jadiin aku 1 capture part di blog kamu
Biar gimanapun, Aku tetep sayang kamu..
Dan akan ingetin kamu (always) being better n more better, sayang

"Yesterday is a cancelled check; Tomorrow is a promissory note;

Today is the only cash you have, Spend it wisely"

-Me, your Previous

Lembang, Bandung.

Bandung, 4 feb - 6 feb 2011

3days for a year-over-passed gather..

3days for all laughs, jokes and absurd things did..

3days for us, intensive accounting class..

3days for our twelve member!

3days for we LADUR FAMILY :)

4 feb 2011, pukul 18:00, @lante 2 kostan pipih..

kami berkumpul, prepare perabat perabot yang mau di bawa..

check out camera, slr, handycam, packingan, tas, duit dan do’a

we are going to spend our weekend..

Lembang , Bandung !

berang2 pake kancut, berangcutttt!

dua mobil konfoy meluncurr..

dua belas butir pasukan bergegas..

berikut wujud-wujudnya yang gue racik pake paint kasta amatir, sorry ya kalo jelek :D

Yoyo - Pipih kami tersayang! bertanggung jawab, karyawan pertamina, tampan dan tampak ‘eksotis’ ! tapi sayang dia males sekali mandi, but we love youu pipi! :*

Pampam - Mimih kami tercinta, sensual dan pintar, makanya pipi sayang sekali, mimi mimi mimi susuuu.. begitulah tutur pipih selalu *ups mesra ya :D

Yanti 'n Septy - Dua buah hati pipi & mimi yang sangat dewasa, terutama dalam ucapan dan perbuatan! Kadar ketawa merekapun juga (emm..sebut saja masuk kategori) spektakuler! *Haha.. Mau Tobeliii pih..

Anitong - Inang kesayangan kami. Inang-inang pasar senen yang menerapkan prinsip hemat anywhere anywhen anyhow. we Cinta you IIPS ( Inang Inang Pasar Senen)! horas!

Sakirun – Abah kami terkasih (keturunan arab) yang berjiwa besar, serba besar dan super besar luar dan dalam! masyallah pa haji.. 0_0

Dew, Iyami - Sepupu-sepupu kesayangan kami yang rajin dan menyenangkan, selalu reminder kami kelak buat send email tugas, ohh our countable sister ! :*

Litongpay, tante kami yang swuuuupeeer gahul, metal dan cadas. Guru besar ladur dalam segala hal, you rock tongpay!

Tyas , putra – ladur team yg berkontribusi dalam menyusun budget dan transportasi selama kami bertamasya. The 1st time juga inep2 bersama loh , thx u both!:D

Thats All our team..

Wait, ternyata kurang satu butir lagi..

Oh craps!.. OUR GARDEN-MEN, si tukang kebun !

Waski - tukang kebun yg kami perlakukan layaknya bagian dari keluarga kami, betapa beruntungnya dia .. ‘kekekekeee’ ( ala ketawa si tkg kebun, maaf dia emang alay --'' )

21.00 teng kita konfoy, ready go ..bismillah

baru setapak meluncur lewat cawang,
unfortunately kami kena tilang!

masuk jalur buswey dan menepi bersama om polisi..

haha.. see betapa konyolnya rute awal kami..

tapi bukan masalah, kami suka sekali di tilang!
we love tilang! yey! (menghibur diri)

---

too much ngakaknisme sepanjang on the way, on the toll, on the car.. ditambah lagi our poorly garden-man yang merangkap side job sebagai 'team ekspedisi'.. yayaa.. pada dasarnya, besar sekali desire kami untuk melempar dan  mempontang-pantingkan situkang kebun itu di tengah tol karawang.. ( mgkn byk yang ngangguk setuju pas baca part ini.. )

tapi forget it lah, skip niat mulia kami itu..

# fast forward button story tune : on #

Sampailah kita di Bukit bintang, tempat pertama yg kita jajaki..

Even malam itu bintangnya malu-malu buat show up, 

yg jls pemandangan dari bukit bintang gabikin kita gengsi untuk show up ( baca : foto2)

dan yaa here we are with a darkly sky star

Continue our trip, dont know where , mengisi perut dini hari sekitar pukul 3:00..

“warung madtari” - available till drop,

emg dasar itu tempat ngegahul makan indomi pagi buta yaa.. ckk

---

Selese makan, cari wc, cari parkiran, mesjid depan smp mimih, drop mobil, drop badan, tidur di mobil, sampe subuh deh. Paginya heading road again, menuju lembang, sarapan (tak lupa), jalan2 lagi, ketawa haha haha, ngantuk, gakerasa, OUTBOUND , sampai! Wiuww!

Seruu.. Seru.. Sseruuu.. ssserrruu.. thats totally can describe our pict above! ! !

Setelah jejeritan, hebohan, basahan, cekikikan, jingkrakan, pegelan, kliyengan dan teparan. Berlabuhlah kami di siniiii, our comfy villa.. villa istana bungaaa... Makan, renang, mandi, tidur, ngerjain tugas (oshh!), maen kartu, smoke-time, video record, take photo, dan tertawaria .. all we do there, di villa istana bunga, blok Q.. *lupa nomer villa nya, sorry :p

The exploration wudn’t stop till the night come,

malemnya kita capcuss kembali

cemil2 serabi di Kampung Daun!

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Kampung daun, the 1st impression on my opinion of their decoration was extremely cooool! how jenious arsitect whose having designed those place so prety-well-done.. Meskipun service ‘on time food delivery’ nya agak agak teramat lamaaa yaa... tapi panorama tempatnya cukup bikin nagih..

tick tock.. We enjoy there sampe mau tutup tempatnya.. gasadar

ckk dasar habitat ladur.

Selesai kelayapan .. we re back to our villa, re-charging power buat besok back to jakarta

Too much fun we do there, ladur meladur, 3 hari seruuu dan really awesome!

Ayoo ladur , kita hangout lagii, April wait us,
jelajah tempat-tempat seru lainnya
dengan keseruan dan kehebohan pasukan kita + mamang kebun kita

Last but not least, a simply text for us..

“ Dear team.. just remind those time, remind those togetherism, remind those collaborated, and do always remind.. we re neve be alone, look at us, you have us to share all the laughs, stories and anything. Cause we are in being apart as one, ladur teams’ !

Udah yah! Dadah! miss you all, cuddle of HUG!
              
                                                                                                    
                                                                                                                      - septy

Nb : Next time ino, metong, bocil kudu ikut yah sayang!

january!

Another vacation hold on the 1st beginning of Year, January! :)

Actually, it was my very first time visit there,
and also (learn how to swim) *blushing*

How very Occasionally we all met together,

yah..as if  there’s no plan schedule before,
there’ll b hard to make us be in one day together..

So because it was so rarely team completed,
i do (really) appreciate our moment there!

Waterboom, Lipo Cikarang ( end of week , Jan, 2011 )
Team : Tri, septy, sandy, renda, dwi, yandi , rio
( as usual we lost ‘topik’ again )

One thing i’d love to thank so GOD!

the weather was prety well nice,

there’re no hotty-sun appeared through time, alhamdulila :D

We all sparing our time , begin on a middle day ‘till the evening comes..

Exciting! Wet-day! Wuhuu!

In order to close our togetherism those day, we all invited by yandi into his house after our water-play has done. Haha, thanks yandi & family for many delicious food had been delivered into our stomach, and big-thanks mbatri for treated us in waterboom those weekend , and also thaaanks all of you guys.. dwi rio sandy renda mbatri yandi!! 

Me miss you xoxo !

Cheers!

Septy.

my 2010 was !

Dear bloggy,,

'ts been along time ago i didn't post any words here..

alhamdulillah udah active lagi  blognya :)

singkat cerita, on this super deluxe opportunity ..

in order to appreciate my life n refreshing mind,
i wud like to track back my precious 2010 before I stare the challenge and wonderful 2011 is..

2010..

banyak sekali phase waktu dan pembelajaran yang udah gue lewatin, dimana gue belajar banyak about learning life, self and others.. dimana nyata gue sadar, too much GOD hand's contribute through my own ordinary life, semua yg seems ordinary , being extra ordinary on my previous year..  semua yg seems fragile, being extra strength towards yesterdays.. semua yg seems child manner, being extremely adult enough to stand..  too much joyful journey over ever i gotta there, on 2010..

Therefore..

gue bersyukur dengan adanya sahabat-sahabat terbaik yg always being support to me.. orang-orang sekitar, yang sangat humble dan careful, dalam setiap unpredict moment yg tuhan kasih.. bersyukur dgn adanya kesedihan dan kecewa yang mampu bikin gue jd inner strong person skrg :) ..bersyukur dgn adanya tawa dan too much fun yg selalu jadi picture terindah yg selalu gw inget.. bersyukur dgn apa yg udah gue raih dalam 2010.. too much thanks for every spots and widely moments i ever received..

Another some good things that happened in the year of yesterday were having finished my last year w/ quite excellent memorize and been met so many inspiring person. 

flood of thanks, Lord! :)

THE BEST AWARDS OF 2010 PRECIOUS MOMENTS GOES TO....

my supper beloved October!

my double two ages,
my Extra thanksful of my Previous Birthday Surprised..

atas 4 surprise cake yg gue terima..

untuk semua ....
sahabat, rekan kerja, campuss-mate, family..

semuanya.. terimakasih .. terimakasih..

you all make my day a lot!

At the same time, those exciting moment of 2010 bring me to uncountable thanks as well

DANKE'! GRACIAS! THANKS!  :D

                                                       LOVE,

                                                     S E P T Y





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